...there's just THIS. Fourteen years ago I spent some time talking to a cool guy I met, a serious Zen student, while traveling through China. We shared a lot of stories while riding together on a train, and at the end of the day I told him about a major problem in my life that I hadn't yet resolved. After I told him about the problem, he looked at me very directly and said very slowly and distinctly, "You don't have a problem!" He said it in a way that totally stopped my mind. I didn;t understand what he was pointing to at the time, but several months later I realized that he was right. I still get a chuckle every time I remember that conversation.