Things can be thought to be fine one moment and thought to be disastrous the next, but it is all the manifestation of isness. In truth there is no "fine" or "disastrous;" there is just THIS manifesting however it manifests. Who we THINK we are is imaginary, so the imagined self can't do anything about anything. Who we REALLY are does what it does in response to whatever happens.
Staying present, psychologically, aligns the body/mind with "what is," and removes resistance. We do what needs to be done, and then we do the next thing that needs to be done. From an action-oriented present-moment-awareness state of being we see that everyone is doing the best s/he can, including the body/mind through which we manifest. This kind of seeing creates intimacy, understanding, and acceptance. We don't blame anyone else, and we don't blame ourself for anything. We see that there is an underlying logic and perfection in everything that happens. Seeing without judgment is the key.
Staying present, psychologically, aligns the body/mind with "what is," and removes resistance. We do what needs to be done, and then we do the next thing that needs to be done. From an action-oriented present-moment-awareness state of being we see that everyone is doing the best s/he can, including the body/mind through which we manifest. This kind of seeing creates intimacy, understanding, and acceptance. We don't blame anyone else, and we don't blame ourself for anything. We see that there is an underlying logic and perfection in everything that happens. Seeing without judgment is the key.
