"Talking and speculating on knowledge lernt from the wise ones" is the very sort of thing that keeps us from perceiving our oneness. As the third patriarch of Zen so eloquently put it, "Stop talking and thinking and there is nothing that you will not be able to know." It is our thinking that causes ideas of separateness to arise. Not-knowing is a direct path to the infinite, and anyone can learn to not-know. Trust yourself 100% and you can verify this for yourself.